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He likes cheerleader costumes…?
Subwaystop · 27/03/2025 23:43
Chatting with this guy who seems to be a total gentleman. Then he added "in the bedroom I like short skirts tall boots, schoolgirl and cheerleader costumes." Say what! It was meant to to invite his style - casual, elegant, formal, etc. He replied that he loves my quirky dress style and how much personality I have, that it comes through in my clothing. What would you make of it? I had an event that required a careful wardrobe selection and in discussing my shopping asked him what his taste in clothing is.
I think if I was just chatting to someone and having a conversation that wasn’t at all about sex, I would think they were being fucking weird to suddenly announce what they liked women to wear ‘in the bedroom’ at all, regardless of what it was.
And yes, wanting middle-aged women to dress as schoolgirls and cheerleaders is a depressing thought. I don’t think it necessarily means he literally wants to shag underage girls, but regardless of that, it would certainly get a big no from me.
Anything like that really has to do it for both partners. If a man has a real thing for something that also makes me feel sexy, that’s great. But I wouldn’t in a million years be dressing in something I felt stupid or uncomfortable in just because some bloke had apparently not moved on sexually since 1978.
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He likes cheerleader costumes…?
Subwaystop · 27/03/2025 23:43
Chatting with this guy who seems to be a total gentleman. Then he added "in the bedroom I like short skirts tall boots, schoolgirl and cheerleader costumes." Say what! It was meant to to invite his style - casual, elegant, formal, etc. He replied that he loves my quirky dress style and how much personality I have, that it comes through in my clothing. What would you make of it? I had an event that required a careful wardrobe selection and in discussing my shopping asked him what his taste in clothing is.
I think if I was just chatting to someone and having a conversation that wasn’t at all about sex, I would think they were being fucking weird to suddenly announce what they liked women to wear ‘in the bedroom’ at all, regardless of what it was.
And yes, wanting middle-aged women to dress as schoolgirls and cheerleaders is a depressing thought. I don’t think it necessarily means he literally wants to shag underage girls, but regardless of that, it would certainly get a big no from me.
Anything like that really has to do it for both partners. If a man has a real thing for something that also makes me feel sexy, that’s great. But I wouldn’t in a million years be dressing in something I felt stupid or uncomfortable in just because some bloke had apparently not moved on sexually since 1978.